Family... Is there anything more comforting that this little word?

Family... Is there anything more comforting that this little word?

Do think about that word: family? It may be just a word for many of us, but coming to this further- it means a lot for all of us. Basically, thinking of it- it is family that molds the world we live in today.

I lived in a large family- where cousins, uncles and aunts all lived under one roof. 

True, there was utter confusion, no chaos, and you can be sure to have a day full of noises, fights and yells!

Literally, I have never witnessed a day of silence; but when I now sit and think about it- there was so much fun, love and happiness in it.

We were never:

- Fully fed with food that we craved for

- Toys seemed to be in the hands of the mighty and the bold ones

- Clothes were never abundant like these days as money was scarce. So, all that we were entitled to a once a year shopping spree and that was definitely for Christmas.

Oh man, I could tell you – whether old or young- we all longed for those shopping days.

In spite of this scarcity- we had fun. There was so much sincerity in the relationships. My grandfather taught everyone just one principle- “Be it good or bad , come what may- but you guys, stick on together!”

Oh yeah, we stood by his principles – not actually knowing whether it was was necessary at that age- but just out of obedience. But that paid off well. Today, all of us are strewn in various parts of the world, but yearly we make it a point to get back together.

That get together is a time for recollections and also updating on what we do, or what we face or what we plan to do in future. We loved this meeting and cherished every moment of it.

All that made me sad was that, as we all grew older- the numbers in the family started dwindling. I guess it was goodbye from many of our older generation and that really made us kinda of depressed. The older generation may not be in style, may look crude- but tell ya what- it was them who had the chock full of wisdom.

It is their wisdom and timely advice that helped me move through life. Whenever, in times of doubt, depression, a talk with some of the elderly gang in my family- brought the feeling that I am not alone- and yes they will help me get past my hurdles.

Now, this is the beginning of my stories and more will come soon. I mean, we have 24 hours in each day, and there so much happening in our lives. 

I benefited a lot from the advice fed to me from my ancestors and thought- it was be good to share my thoughts, feelings and memories with you. Of course, you never know who may be in need of such wisdom

take care and see you all soon.